When I asked some friends what they thought about this rather
sensitive subject being brought up in the Times, they told me to do it, but to
approach the topic with sensitivity. That is not my personality at all.
But, as I would like to refrain from offending anyone, I guess I will have to
try.
Seven out of 400,000. Seven what? Well, I'll tell you: 7
words out of 400,000 words. You see, there are 400,000 words in the English
language... and then there are the 7 forbidden fruits. The 7 dirty words "you
can't say on television." But exactly what is a "dirty" word? In my
opinion, there are no dirty words... only innuendos of our culture.
Think about all the words that you can't say at school (or on
TV for that matter) and think about what they truly mean. Yes, every single one
of them (except for one) has a meaning that is something completely innocent! But our
culture twists and turns almost every single word so that you can barely talk
without saying something completely obscene. So what's an innuendo? "An
indirect or subtle, usually derogatory implication in expression; an
insinuation," says Dictionary.com Need a translation? It means that someone
somewhere takes a word and says that it means something obscene or just
generally disgusting.
So, "dirty" words are really cultural innuendos.
But what
makes people say, "Oh! Don't say that word! That's a bad word!"
I believe it's a type of
domino effect, if you will. An innocent word such as the "b" word (which
also
means a female dog and is used by veterinarians as a technical term) is turned
into a derogatory, sexist comment used to "put down" women. Therefore, because it is
offensive towards women, and anyone of the opposite gender as well, it is
considered a dirty word and is not supposed to be said by decent people.
This is not the end of the story, though. It can work both
ways. Certain words that are accepted in the English culture by the majority can
actually be very offensive to others. Such as the word "wife-beater." The word
can mean "a type of undershirt", yet because of the compound of
the words it is extremely offensive towards women. Wife-Beater? Come on now! How
could it not be offensive?
So now you see how words can work both ways. My
conclusion: As I said before, a "dirty" word is really a cultural innuendo and some culturally
accepted words can be a type of innuendo as well.
This article reflects my opinions only and is not meant to impose my thoughts
upon anyone else. If you personally did not care for this particular article you
do not have to tell me so. ;) I apologize if I offended anyone; it was not my
intention and I have tried my best throughout the writing of this article to
choose my words wisely.
-cloudy83
Editor's Note: Where did that term for the
undershirt come from? My understanding is that it was (and may still be)
slang, referring to the kind of men who were seen to beat their wives and how
they would wear those particular undershirts. Offensive in various degrees
to both genders, in that case. What other offensive words have unusual
roots?
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